Say you’re a traditionalist. Say you want a man to be the man in the relationship - the breadwinner, the provider.
In return you’re the loving, caring, beautiful, and all-around perfect woman. You’ll care for him, love him, and always be there. But for to you always be there, to always look beautiful, and be all-around perfect your man needs to provide for you - financially, emotionally, and of course physically (🙄🙄🙄).
Instead of demanding something mutually beneficial, demand A MAN. Watch how the tables turn when he’s forced to either comply or admit he’s not a man who’s capable…… And nothing hurts a man’s ego, pride, or manhood more 😈
don’t remember if i reblogged already but oh well!!
Websites have made new babies lazy. Girls were getting money long before apps and websites. One of the differences in my opinion between sugaring and escorting is there is no rush. Escorting is faster cash, time for money. Sugar is different. It’s not time for money. It’s companionship for money. Companionship meaning not only intimacy. You cannnot rush it. It’s about mind games and mental domination. Men will view you as the prize if sugaring is done right. You are the trophy because of who you are not them because they give you money.
With that being said, you must use your sugar senses (like spidey senses) to figure out if a man has the ability to be a SD. Like I’ve said previously, a lot of men are daddies without even knowing there’s a name for it. You don’t ever even have to use the word “allowance”.
As a BABY, it is your job to know how to seduce a man into wanting to be a daddy. If you don’t know how to do it, then hang up the Agent Provocateur baby girl cause this life isn’t for you.
I’ll give a personal example and I hope this helps.
I met a guy from a dating site that was very vanilla. He even mentioned in his profile that he is strictly not a sd and hated that babies were contacting him. I didn’t let that stop me. First time we met I blew his mind. I was mysterious, intelligent, funny, sexy, wore a short dress that showed my legs and I was very bold. I flirted my ass off. Laughed at every joke. I could tell he was so shocked and shy. After that, I texted him almost every day like I was 17 with a crush. He wasn’t used to that much consistent attention from someone as hot and young as me. Then after about 3 weeks, I decided to test the generosity… I had a flight and I complained about being in the back of the plane (which I wasn’t), he instantly sent me money to upgrade my seat to first class, I never even asked. Then told him my back was hurting and needed a good massage, he sent me $500. Never asked again. It got to the point I started to boldly always ask for money and he would send It. He never asked what for. After about 2 months, he would send money without me bringing something up or asking. Even though he advertised he isn’t a daddy, I turned him into one.
Okay so I think I have actually cracked Tinder for sugar babies. My profile reads “I enjoy the company of classy older men who love to spoil me. I’m intelligent, curvy, vibrant and would love to get to know you over cocktails next to the waterfront.”
Then I match with guys with signs they’re wealthy in their profiles, then they message and always mention something about spoiling me. So I say okay let’s go out for lunch, take a walk then do a bit of shopping. And they’re so down. Then on the shopping trip you can test their generosity and get a sense for whether they’re worth seeing again.
Salts will just unmatch and disappear because they know they will have to buy you things from the start. It also sets it up so that it is clear to them I do not come for free and my tastes are expensive.
I watched five YouTube videos of being married to older rich men and each of them met while the woman was sitting at the bar, alone, minding her damn business. Other sbs say that screams escorts but I get approached more in the city solo and men are more willing to communicate about their lives better than if I was with a group of women. This goes vice versa with men. Men with their friends are too occupied with impressing their friends through flirting with you, so you will encounter a situation where he is throwing $$$$ at you, and you think he has money when he probably just killed his paycheck and has alcohol confidence. The POTs I have met who were alone are more conscientious of what they say and make sure the goal of the conversation is to make her feel like there is a need he can fill for me.
Hearing the stories of men eating alone, approaching women at the bar just for conversation, it’s sad for the man but it’s the perfect scenario for young women. You think men are not paying attention to you, but sometimes they know how you look, smell, smile, and know your laugh but are deeply afraid of rejection.
Disclaimer:Do whatever works for you, because there is no right formula to freestyling. Women have met famous and generous men at franchise restaurants because, he doesn’t like dressing up, at the gym sweaty and musty, walking their dog near a gated community and at the grocery store and etc.
The Bank Account/Gift Card Scammer -
A person who is trying to get you to send him your bank account info so he can launder money. Promises a big allowance before even meeting and speaks in broken English. They wire you money and ask that you buy gifts cards and send them back in return. The wired money is flagged as fraud and you end up having to pay back the bank the funds. Most of these scams originate from Nigeria but also other countries as well.
The Splenda Daddy - A person who pretends to be a sugar daddy but doesn’t really have the money to provide a reasonable allowance. They will meet you for coffee or dinner and then low ball you or try to convince you to have an arrangement with no money involved. They try to build an emotional bond with you so that you forget about an allowance and date them like a normal relationship.
The Scam Artist -
A person who impersonates a sugar daddy either online or in person. He promises a big monthly allowance in the beginning and convinces you that he is very rich. He strings you along for a while asking for sexy pics, cam shows, phone calls, etc. and then vanishes without giving you the allowance that was promised. In person, he will try to have sex with you and split before giving you the cash.
